Make the most out of life
Have you ever tried visualization? Not just the imagine it and it will manifest itself, but more like it is written, "For everyone who keeps asking receives; he who keeps seeking finds; and to him who keeps knocking, the door will be opened," (Matt. 7:8 CJB). However, you have to be specific by keeping in mind exactly what it is you are asking for. My mother once said that if I were looking for some particular traits in a man, I should make a list of what those things are.